If you haven’t already been in the position where your toddler is cranky after daycare, then you will be. It is as certain as death and taxes! But what is the reason why they are so cranky? And what can you do about it?

In this post, I take a look at the most common reasons why your toddler is cranky after daycare.


You are no doubt aware that when your toddler has a problem, getting the reason why is like dealing with an emotionally unstable international spy.

You can try and ask the question in many different ways, but you are not going to get the answer. Sure, you may get AN answer, but it will not be what you need to hear.

Your job is to run through a list of reasons why your toddler is cranky after daycare until you stumble across the reason and all is well in the world again.

Here are the 7 most common reasons:

7 Reasons Why Your Toddler Is Cranky After Daycare

 


Hungry

toddler cranky after daycare hungry

Along with being tired, being hungry is the most common reason why your toddler is cranky after daycare., especially if they are new and are not used to the whole daycare process.

When my son first started daycare, the first thing he said to me when I picked him up was ‘I am hungry’. Over time, these words were uttered less and less, and I have a theory about it.

When you are a toddler, some things in life can be quite intimidating. Starting a new daycare, or school can concern them into a mini hunger strike.

There is also the fact that toddlers can be very picky about what they eat, and starting daycare will introduce them into a whole world of different foods that they may not have tried before.

It may also be that your toddler will go through growth spurts and it doesn’t matter how much you feed them, they will still be hungry!

Hunger has been shown to have a negative impact on your child’s development, so if you think they are not getting enough food, then speak with the Daycare staff, or load them up before they leave the house.

Ultimately, if your toddler is hungry, then your toddler is also cranky. It is an easy fix, just offer them a healthy snack.

 


Tired

toddler cranky after daycare tired

I have never worked at a daycare center, but if I did I would come home completely drained of all mental and physical energy. Even dropping my son off made me tired!

Kids have far too much energy, and even when they are tired they still want to play. It is built within them.

During daycare, your toddler will have probably burnt a considerable amount of energy, and they will be tired. We all know what a tired toddler is going to be like, don’t we?

It is simple. When you get home from daycare, just relax, and chill with them. They will soon drift off to sleep and you can carry on with your evening life.

The key thing is that you relax them. I found that the use of a baby/toddler night light projector works wonders for getting them to sleep.

When your child gets good quality sleep, it promotes their growth and development. So always work on improving the bedtime routine!

 


Bullied

toddler cranky after daycare being bullied

If your toddler is being bullied at daycare, they will definitely will cranky!

Bullying can begin at a very young age, so you need to be making your toddler aware of what bullying is. For a start, you need them to tell you if they are being bullied, and secondly, you do not want them to BE the bully.

When discussing bullying with your toddler, it is very important for them to be aware of the way it makes people feel, and the consequences of the bully’s actions.

If you think your toddler is being bullied then it is also important to speak to the daycare staff so they can keep a close eye to ensure that, if it is happening, it will be stopped.

 


Bored

toddler cranky after daycare bored

This can happen towards the end of daycare when they begin to get bored with what they are being taught.

Kids know when they are ready to move up to the next step with their learning, but they just do not know how to tell you. If your toddler is cranky after daycare it could be because their thirst for knowledge is not being quenched.

Speak with the staff at your toddler’s daycare center and ask them to increase the skill level of what they are teaching your toddler. Keep an eye on mood improvements over the next few weeks.

 


You Are Taking Away Their Fun

toddler cranky after daycare you have taken their fun away

For me, daycare is a place that I drop my son off to, and I pick him up from. If I were to spend any more time there, then I would need a dark, padded room to go home to.

For toddlers, it is different. They have friends, toys, food, and education all under one roof. They have had fun at daycare all day, and now you are here to ruin it for them.

You can make this easier on yourself by spending a bit of time playing with them when they get in. You can also give them something to look forward to when you pick them up, a treat of some kind.

 


Lack Of Attention

toddler cranky after daycare lack of attention

During daycare, your toddler will have grown-ups attending to their every need. Whether they want to play, eat, sleep, a grown-up is there with them, because that is their job.

When they get home, and you have been busy all day, you just want to chill out. Your toddler goes from someone who is playing constantly with them, to someone who is tired and wants to chill out. It is a transition which may see your toddler become cranky.

The thing about toddlers is they know how to push your buttons, and if they are not getting the required attention from you then they will do what they can to get ANY attention from you. You may also notice this when they come back from visiting Grandparents, or friends who also have children.

 


Sick

toddler cranky after daycare sick

If this is something new that you are dealing with, it could be that they are coming down with a cold, or the flu, or some other infection.

Daycare is a breeding ground for germs!

Ask them if they feel ok (good luck with that). Check their temperature (use a good thermometer). Do all of the things that you usually do when dealing with a sick toddler.

Oh, and dose up in the vitamins…because if they are sick, you will not be far behind. I guess you are already aware of that!

 


Conclusion

If your toddler is cranky after daycare then it could be for a number of reasons. The reasons I have identified above are the most common.

If the crankiness carries on, despite your attempts to placate them, then you really need to speak with the staff at the daycare center.

The daycare staff will have a lot of experience with cranky toddlers and they may also be able to identify any reasons why your Toddler might be cranky after you pick them up from daycare.

Your toddler is cranky for a reason, you simply need to find out what it is! Obviously, I say ‘simple’ in jest, because we all know that it is far from simple, right?

Usually, I do not get past the first two reasons on this post before the mood improves.

Good luck!